sweet children

Ethan's Good News

I had a meeting with Ethan's teachers, principal, and speech pathologist today to go over his IEP (individual education plan). I love his teachers, they are wonderful. They work so well with him, and he is doing so well that they said if he were to be tested today he wouldn't qualify for speech therapy. This is remarkable improvement since a year ago he could only say a few words, and now he can form sentences, and ask/answer questions. Luckily, they only test every 3 years, so he can still have the help he needs. It was nice to sit with people who know my child as well as I do, and go over the concerns I had. I have had many people express concerns to me over different things Ethan does or does not do, and it was nice to sit with people who could put my worries at ease, and know that they are working with him. I'm so proud of him, he surpassed their expectations for speech and development so much that it took them completely by surprise. He is one smart little boy :).

Washington Trip Part 1

Last month I decided to go home to Washington for a visit, and stayed for about 3 weeks. I don't go home very often, once a year if that. It is a long drive with children, esp. when you are by yourself, so I decided that if I was going to go I might as well stay long enough to make it worth the long drive. The main reason I had for going home was to visit my Grandma Nelson, so she could see my children. She isn't doing well health wise and I don't know how much longer she will be around. I will post pictures of her and the kids in the next post.
I am from a very beautiful area, and I was excited to see it again. The above picture is of a canal/reservoir that is just outside my town area, along the route there. I tried to get some good pictures of it myself, but the weather didn't want to cooperate for my dinky cell phone. I have some on film i'll need to get developed. This picture is from this website, where the photographer also has several other really good pictures of the area. http://www.jeffpolston.com/eastwash.htm

While home we watched grandpa, uncle bruce and some other friends of my dad help put on his new metal roof; went to the beach on on Lake Roosevelt, behind the dam; picked 11qts of blackberries; visited friends up near Republic (very beautiful area up in the mountains north of my town); did yard work for my mother; and saw people I hadn't seen in a long time, some not even since High School 9+ years ago.

 

Ethan had fun playing on the granite boulders while I risked my life to pick blackberries. Some of the bushes were seriously monsters, they towered over me, and the thorns were nasty. It was worth it though, I now have plenty of berries for pies and other good stuff this winter.

Last thursday I drove to Spokane to spend a couple days with my sister Rachelle, and also see my brother Levi. I am so impressed with Levi, he is going to school at ITT in Spokane, and just got a job at the airport cleaning airplanes at night time. He seriously rides his bike home at 3 am from the airport, and it takes him about an hour. It scares me having him do that, but at the same time, i'm impressed with his willingness to do hardwork to achieve his goals. Things don't come easily for him, but he still works hard at them. We spent friday afternoon with Rachelle and Levi at Manito park (a botanical series of gardens and green house) in Spokane. I had never been there and it is beautiful.

I will post more picture is future posts, once they become available. I didn't have my digital camera (still broken) and so I used Ryan's nice 35mm camera. The pictures in this post were all taken with the cameras on Rachelle and my phones.

My Sweet Peas

Ethan has been so good with Violet, he tells people that she is his Violet. He can get her to stop crying, and she lights up whenever she sees him. He can get her to laugh more often than mommy. She loves her big brother, and I'm going to work hard at helping them to always be friends.

I've started feeding Violet solids, and she LOVES vegetables. She'll tolerate fruit, but you can't spoon the veggies in fast enough. She is really good at using her tongue and tries really hard to talk. She is getting better at making sounds, and will let out random squeaks and squawks that crack us up. She has discovered her hands, and yesterday she discovered her feet. Pretty soon she will have them in her mouth along with her hands. :). She is the sweetest baby, and even though it looks like she might be beginning to teeth, she is only mildly fussy. She is getting better at playing with toys, and reaching out and grabbing things.

My friend Mirinda gave her a doll, and she loves it. She cuddles it up against her face. It's very cute.

This is one of the boys I work with (i'm only a substitute now) holding Violet. The two brothers love Violet, and she likes riding around on their wheel chairs.

Violet Coraline

A bunch of pictures of Violet, and some from my baby shower.

Sorry for the lack of pictures with this post, my camera is still broken.

I thought I would blog about Ethan, and the funny things he has been saying and doing lately. His speech is getting better and better, the biggest problem now is pronounciation, but over all he is doing so wonderful in my opinion. Every day he says something new that I didn't know that he knew, and it makes me smile. His favorite phrases lately are: I don't want it!; Wait, wait, wait!; come with me; listen to me; just a second; Ethan said yes! (when I say "I said no");Okay mom; Super Ethan!, I need it!, I'm Fine! (when I ask him to do something he doesn't want to do). He say's a lot more than that, but those are the ones he repeats often.

He has started saying "choose the right!" only he doesn't understand the meaning and thinks it is in reference to directions or choosing which foot to put his shoe on. Grandpa asked him one day what way we should go in the car, and Ethan responded "Choose the right!"

Ethan can be difficult when I want him to go to bed, and lately we were having problems with him throwing tantrums. I started having him say, in his personal prayers, "help me to be nice to mommy and daddy and listen to them". One night he started to throw a tantrum and I said what I always say, "Ethan you need to be nice", and Ethan responded, "yes, Ethan needs to be nice because Heavenly Father wants me to".

Yesterday he came with me to the dollar store to pick up something and he discovered the toy isle. He comes running over carrying this big box that had a race track and three cars in it, and said he wanted it and needed it. I told him no, and that he needed to put it back. He had a meltdown and cried all the time i was in the store and all the way home. After telling him he couldn't watch any movies since he threw a fit, I also sat down with him and explained that he needed to listen when I told him no, and that I did not have toy money at the moment. He responded quickly by saying "Ethan has money". He than ran into the living room and returned with his piggy bank that he had been playing with earlier. I was surprised he thought of that, and I told him he didn't have enough money to buy the toy. Ryan arrived home at that moment, and I translated what was going on. Ryan thought it was pretty hillarious. We decided to have him do some chores around the house to earn money. When he had done a chore, he came back and said "have money please?" and ryan gave him a couple coins after inspecting his work. Ethan than ran and got his coat and backpack and said he wanted to "store, buy three cars!" It took a while to get him to understand that he still didn't have enough money, and that it would take some time to earn it. The whole incident was so funny! I knew I would eventually have this discussion with my children, but I didn't expect it so soon.

I will post other things he's said another day, since this post has gotten so long. I wish I had pictures to go with it, hopefully we will get our camera fixed soon or buy a new one.

I had my first ultrasound this morning. I found out I'm 17 weeks along, and due around April 10th. And we are having a girl! I am carrying really low, her head is pretty low, and she was curled up a little in the ultrasound, as if to say, "leave me alone, I want to sleep!". I really love ultrasounds. One of the shots we got was of her hand up, and it's really clear, you can see the joints of the fingers. Another shot has her sucking her thumb :). I was a little surprised at how excited I was to find out she was a girl, I was in the grocery store and I wanted to stop random people and tell them i was having a girl. I refrained though. :).